Do You Actually Like Your Kids? The Parenting Question No One Wants to Answer

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Do you love your kids—but sometimes realize you don't actually like the behavior they've become? That's the uncomfortable question Elisabeth McKay is asking in this episode of Decoded. Because parenting isn't a lottery, and a child's behavior doesn't develop inside a vacuum. Your household is constantly providing inputs—and those inputs are helping shape the behavioral outputs you eventually have to live with. This episode challenges both ends of the parenting pendulum: harsh, authoritarian discipline on one side and hyper-attentive, permissive parenting on the other. Elisabeth argues that love, empathy, and good intentions don't automatically produce resilient, capable children. Sometimes…