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Cate & Ty Break It Down

Cate & Ty Break It Down

The Day I Grew Up: Finding Out My Cousin Was My Mother (PART 2)

Jul 15, 2026 · 1h 4m

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Cate is back with D.A. (@difficult.adoptee) to continue the exploration of trauma, systemic failure, and survival. DA shares her journey of growing up in a controlling, highly restrictive kinship adoption and the moment she realized her family was built on performance and lies. From navigating a volatile reunion with her biological mother and a dangerous encounter with her biological father, DA reflects on the systemic lack of regulation in kinship placements. She also shares the layering grief of losing her infant son in the second trimester, drawing powerful parallels to her own mother’s unacknowledged postpartum grief.Thank you to our sponsors!Alloy: Get your menopause treatment plan…