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The Pretty Peculiar People Puzzle

The Pretty Peculiar People Puzzle

Why You Sill Chasing (July Bonus J)

Jul 22, 2026 · 47m

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Married But Still Not Chosen: Some women spend years chasing men who never fully show up — and even after the wedding, the chase doesn't end. On this episode of The Pretty Peculiar People Puzzle Podcast, Pudgee and Ekko Seven break down why women pursue men who don't want them, and why that wanting doesn't stop once there's a ring involved. They unpack the psychology behind the chase, intermittent attention, early attachment wounds, and why marriage removes the uncertainty of commitment but not the ache of not feeling chosen. They also get into the man's side of this puzzle, why some men grow comfortable being chased, and read a real listener puzzle about a four-year marriage where the…