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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

S23E2: How To Be More Secure In Dating and Relationships w/ Dr. Amir Levine (Author of Attached)

Sep 8, 2026 · 1h 4m

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About this episode

This isn't just another episode about attachment theory. We have THE man, the myth, the legend Dr. Amir Levine, author of the bestselling book Attached, here with us talking about his latest book Secure and how anyone can learn to build more secure connections – even if you are inherently more anxious or avoidant. We discuss why attachment theory has become such a huge part of dating culture, what it means to be CARRP (and how to recognize these qualities in a partner) and what to do when you’re dating someone who is showing up more anxious or avoidant so instead you can try to build something more secure with them (or know when it's time to walk away). Enjoy! To learn more about Amir…