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The Pressures of Privilege

The Pressures of Privilege

Ep49 Matt Grace—How to Set a Boundary With Someone You Love When You're Terrified It Will Hurt Them

Aug 31, 2026 · 50m

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In this episode of The Pressures of Privilege, host Diana Oehrli sits down with Matt Grace, founder of the family recovery practice, Saving Grace, who has spent more than twenty years sober and over ten thousand hours walking wealthy families through a child's, a spouse's, or a sibling's addiction. His memoir, God Doesn't Relapse, released on August 11 and traces his own years of active addiction, an overdose in his boss's office, and a father who paid his bills until he turned twenty-nine. Matt has sat across from families spending twenty and thirty thousand dollars a month on an Amex Black Card that funds nothing but the addiction. Wealth, in his experience, usually works by removing the…