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Your Ambitions Might Not Be Yours | Tom Rath

Jun 1, 2026 · 46m

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Most of us reach our 40s and discover something unsettling: the ambitions we've been chasing weren't entirely ours. They came from parents, from culture, from the two or three careers we happened to see up close. Tom Rath calls this looking through a pinhole, and he thinks it explains more midlife restlessness than most of us are willing to admit. Tom is one of the most widely-read researchers on how careers shape health and wellbeing. His books, including the instant number one New York Times bestseller How Full Is Your Bucket? and StrengthsFinder 2.0 , have sold more than 10 million copies. His latest book is What's the Point?: Turning Purpose into Your Daily Superpower . In this…