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The Overthinkers

When Should We Go No Contact with Our Families? (With Noelle Mering)

Oct 5, 2026 · 58m

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About this episode

Experts say family estrangement is on the rise, even as abuse is not. But why? Joseph Holmes and Nathan Clarkson discuss with author Noelle Mering the findings of her book "No Contact: How a Seductive Ideology Broke Families and Friendships and How We Can Repair Them" References and resources Family estrangement on the rise: https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2026/jan/24/family-estrangement-children-parents-beckhams Rates of abuse dropping: https://www.healio.com/news/psychiatry/20251120/incidence-of-child-maltreatment-declined-overall-in-us-from-2012-to-2023 Why do families get estranged? https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2021/01/why-parents-and-kids-get-estranged/617612/…