Should I Say Something? The Psychology of Honesty, Boundaries & Difficult Conversations with Vanessa Bohns

About this episode

When should you speak up, and when is it better to keep something to yourself? This week, we welcome Vanessa Bohns, social psychologist at Cornell University and author of Should I Say Something? The Science of What to Share and What to Keep to Yourself, for an insightful conversation about the everyday decisions that shape our relationships, careers, and personal lives. Drawing on psychological research, Vanessa explores why we often overestimate how negatively people will react when we speak up, share our feelings, ask personal questions, or offer honest feedback. From deciding whether to tell a friend about a potentially unfaithful partner to figuring out when to share good news, bad…