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A Really Good Cry

A Really Good Cry

How to Stop Taking Everything Personally

Sep 15, 2026 · 16m

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Do you spiral over one short reply? Does one comment stay with you for days? What if none of it was ever about you? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi breaks down why we take things personally, what’s actually happening in the body and mind when we do, and how to stop letting other people’s behavior define how we feel about ourselves. From the nervous system’s need to fill in uncertainty to the unhealed past pain that gets triggered by a single comment, this episode gets to the root of why we react the way we do. And more importantly, it gives you real tools to pause, ground yourself, and stop outsourcing your worth to other people’s moods. In this episode,…